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5 years ago I set out for an entire life makeover/rehaul/revamp/transformation. 5 years ago, I started my journey to learning the skill to become happy and overcome the constant negative self talk. 5 years ago, I started making the tiniest, most miniscule of mindset shifts and because of how much those little things impacted me mentally, I knew I was onto something. DBAB was born.

Even though I didn’t have a clear path or end goal of this, people still resonated with the phrase and it grew like wildfire. I went on to gain 1700 DBAB subscribers, selling over 150 DBAB bracelets and over 500 copies of Bryleigh’s Burners. It gave me a spark everyday when I gained new subscribers or sold something that people could resonate with and gain from mentally and physically. 

Even though I was constantly working on overcoming the negative thoughts and constant questioning of myself like  ‘do I even have what it takes to be a leader of a growing group like this?’ ‘I’m nothing special, why would people look to me for help?’ etc.. After about a year of hard work in growing the DBAB community, those thoughts and voices took back control over my life and DBAB started to dwindle and die. The most recurring one “I’m not meant to be a leader and truly change people’s lives” and this was the one that ultimately led to feeling like a failure and becoming true. I was telling myself exactly what was going to happen. I did not have the skills learned yet to disconnect from my negative emotions. I was allowing those emotions to run my life. 

Imagine if I would have actually accepted the facts for what they were. 1700 people believed in the name and resonated with the message of DBAB and I did not have the mindset to recognize that for what it was! (THE MIND IS CRAZY WHEN YOU LET IT BE!) I allowed those emotions and thoughts to put a complete stop to something that 1000’s of people looked forward to.

5 years later and over 2.5 years of daily intentions and energy put into learning the skills and gaining the tools it takes to be happy and making a connection with that negative voice and making it my best friend. OH, and a Life Coaching Certification later, I have now helped dozens of 1-on-1 life coaching clients’ change their life for the better.

Now, how do I do that for the masses now that I’m fully equipped to do so? 5 years later, someone commented on one of my posts and said that their Don’t Be A Bitch bracelet still helps them get through their days. A light bulb turned back on. All of these communities and groups from EvolveTogether and Becoming Unphased that I have been trying to build and grow and figure out some sort of direction for are full circling me back to what it should have been all along. Don’t Be A Bitch.

What I didn’t know back then was how to clearly define what DBAB meant and who it is for. While it may still not be at 100%, my goal of imperfect action everyday will hold up. That mindset and phrase of ‘imperfect action is better than perfect inaction’ will be engraved in me by the time I’m done and will motivate and inspire others to do the same. 

DBAB is a way of life. It’s an improved way of life that gets you thinking more balanced and clear. It’s a way of life that challenges negative thoughts rather than letting them bring you down. It’s learning to get out of your own way. It’s learning to become your own best friend. It’s a way to become happy from within. 

It’s for people who hold themselves back from living their life to the happiest it can be. It’s for people who constantly shit on themselves and don’t even know what being happy looks anymore. It’s for people who still have hope that change is possible. It’s for people who will fight for themselves and take their power back from that voice that has taken over. It’s for people who want to be better but don’t know where or how to start.

DBAB is back and in full force. I intend to make this thing blow up with everything I have learned and acquired over the last 5 years. It all makes sense now. 

 

I struggled with having negative mindset for years. It’s taken a ton of work but 5 years later, I have gotten to the other side and because of this, my entire purpose in life is to help others do the same. 

If you can relate and have a negative voice in your head at times (or all the time) or feel like you are constantly allowing things and emotions to hold you back from reaching goals, join the DBAB community!

We can join forces to create a more positive collective mindset for ourselves and the world!

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